Wednesday, January 10, 2007

More Than I Deserve

Mr. Mandolyn and I went for our "big" sonogram appointment yesterday afternoon. Other than once, I haven't really felt any movement, which has been a concern that I've been trying to push further and further back inside my head. I'm at the end of 20 weeks, based on baby measurements (22 wks if you go by LMP). Fears were quieted about two seconds after the doctor put the goo on my belly (which was warm, by the way- a detail much appreciated). Anterior placenta. Of course. But Baby was squirming all around. Right as the doctor was pointing out the eyes, nose and mouth, we got to see a big (Drama Queen) yawn and then a hand appeared on the screen waving at us. My heart exploded with love and happiness. I swear, a rainbow popped out of my chest and illuminated the room. Birds started chirping, butterflies appeared out of thin air and a wreath of daisies suddenly adorned my head. All signs currently point toward a girl. Mr. Mandolyn's response was, "YES!"

The doctor told me how he and The Best Nurse Ever had a rough morning. A couple that reminded them of us had been in. Conceiving had been especially difficult, they'd come in for the first sonogram and been devestated when a heartbeat was not detected and measurements were behind. He said the Best Nurse Ever commented to him as they left, "Maybe it'll be a Mandolyn case." Ah. My heart breaks into a million pieces for this couple and their baby. I wish I didn't know what they are currently going through, the waiting, the hanging on by a frayed thread of hope...possibly some of the hardest several weeks to emotionally endure. And still. While as not to downgrade their pain in any imaginable way, I found a small part of me smiling. I know that the doctor can now say, "it's a longshot, but I've seen this turn out well before" with confidence. I don't know if that would have had any effect on my emotions when I was in their position, but I smiled at the slight chance that it might.

Right at this moment, I'm not overly worried about anything in particular. I realize that probably won't last for long, but for now at least, I am almost calm. Almost relaxed, and every now and then, 13 weeks ago and all the panic it held seems like another lifetime. I can't help but think that surely I don't deserve this. Surely I'm cheating the universe somehow, right? I must have slipped through the cracks of the Entirely-Too-Much-Goodness Police files. Not that I plan on turning myself in or anything. Nope. I'm taking my daisy tiara and my bursting rainbow and I'm going skipping through green pastures or something. Happy rocks.

10 comments:

Michelle said...

What great news! So...if you are 20 weeks...um...does this mean you know what the sex of the baby is??

aah0424 said...

I think you should rename this post "Getting Everything I Deserve." Congratulations on a successful ultrasound and on your daughter!

the_road_less_travelled said...

I'm so happy that you and your baby are doing well.

TeamWinks said...

That's exciting stuff!

Gypsyhick said...

Congratulations! I'm so very happy for you, the Mr, and the rainbow-inspiring yawning baby. :)

The Town Criers said...

I am so happy for you guys. Those sonograms are the best. And this is what you deserve--a happy, healthy pregnancy.

Michelle said...

I tagged you for a meme

Bobby and Ivy said...

Congratulations!!! So glad to hear your good news. I think I was a good 22 weeks before Luke's movement's got terribly noticable. Don't worry.

Murray said...

Yay! That's so wicked! Congratulations on a girl! The u/s experience is incredible and I'm so glad things are going great!

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